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🧳 The Quiet Problem Most Builders Carry

Sometimes in teams or early-stage projects, there’s one person who ends up holding the map. They know the why, the what, the when. They make sure things get unblocked. They fix what breaks. They translate ideas into next steps. And when something stalls, everyone turns to them.

This isn’t always a formal role. It’s often something that forms by default, not by design.

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I see this loop everywhere. It’s not just about being “busy” or “doing everything.” It’s about being the one person who holds the whole picture in their head—and paying the silent cost of that responsibility.

And I’ve lived it too.

🪤 The Drag Loop: What This Looks Like in Practice

Here’s how it usually plays out:

Idea → Share → Confusion → Fix → Back to One Person → Repeat